Friday, September 4, 2009

Prologue Part V: Summing up

With my paperwork finally done, I was good to go. I’d been planning on Peace Corps since my Sophomore year of college, so I’ve had a lot of time to prepare for it. Here are some things I did when I just wanted to join Peace Corps, not caring about what country:

I took courses in

  1. History of Sub-Saharan Africa since 1800
  2. Elements of Nutrition
  3. Music cultures of the world
  4. Cross Cultural Psychology
  5. U.S. Latina/o Studies
  6. Music Fundamentals

I also volunteered in Uganda (ended up teaching Hebrew, crazy story there). I volunteered with America Counts, an organization that goes to public schools and tutors math after school to children who could use some extra help there. Two of my three Letters of Recommendation for Peace Corps actually came out of that, one being my America Counts team leader and one from a member of Kulanu (the organization that sent me to Uganda). I took up the ukulele, but had never played an instrument before (learned via Youtube and the Music Fundamentals course). The ukulele’s portable, non-electronic (ideal for wherever I might be), and if you’ve never heard the great Mr. Jake Shimabukuro play While My Guitar Gently Weeps, please stop reading this blog, watch it on youtube, and then continue your reading experience.

After Albert (Amihai) was murdered in Iraq, I decided to go to an Arab country. The way I figure, it’s just been too much fighting over there. I’m hoping to do the opposite, hoping to learn Arabic and about Islam in order to work towards peace. Hopefully once I come back from Morocco, I’ll be able to use my newly acquired language/cultural skills to work towards peace. Idealistic? Sure. Naïve? Yeah, yeah it is. But I’m tired of the guns, I’m tired of the bombs, and I’m tired of all the Albert’s being murdered. So in memory of Albert (zekher l’Amihai), here’s what I’ve done.

I took courses in:

1. Arabic (two semesters’ worth)

2. Basic Helping Skills Psychology

3. Introduction to Counseling Psychology

4. Urban Studies: The Challenge of Cities

5. Teaching English to Non-English Speaking Natives

6. Psychology of Language (which I dropped, also a crazy story there, shouldn’t have been able to graduate on time without that course [it was a 400-level and I needed another one of those if I wanted my diploma])

I also went to Salat Al Juma’a (Arabic for “Prayers the Friday”) every Friday with the Muslim Student Association on campus. I studied some (though really not all too much) Quran with a Muslim friend. I worked two summers at an overnight camp (requested an older bunk my first summer there, Peace Corps apparently likes it better when you work with older kids). I tutored English to several grad-school students on campus (again, older kids). I worked at the gym on campus (they got me CPR certified, my recruiter told me that’d be a good idea). I volunteered at the University Health Center. And that was about it.

Apparently it worked, I’m going to Morocco. I’ll be working in Youth Development, which as far as I know entails teaching English, working at a Dar Shabab (youth center) during the school-year and an English camp over the summers.

For those who want to join the Peace Corps, here’s my advice: Make sure you really want to go. When I first heard about Peace Corps, I thought it was the coolest thing ever. Despite my interview story, I’m told it’s really hard to get in. Go to a recruiting event, learn more about it (go to their website to learn where/when the closest one to you will be). Read up on what jobs they do in each region (as you do get to have a “preference” of region, though that’s no guarantee). And get some experience in the area you’ll most likely work in. I’m not saying volunteer abroad, but volunteer for sure. Get some experience: it shows Peace Corps you’re motivated, and gives you the chance to know if you really enjoy it. `Cause two years and three months in a foreign country, away from everything/one you know/love with few pople to speak English to, doing a job you don’t care for while working for an organization you’re not too crazy about…that’s gotta suck.

Thursday, September 3, 2009

Prologue Part IV: More Forms

So, my electronic Peace Corps account says that I’ve been cleared by medical, there are no legal holds, and that I’ve been nominated to Morocco. Problem is, still haven’t been cleared by Dental. They sent back my x-rays and such with a note that said I have to get my wisdom teeth removed (which, to be fair, my dentists have been saying since I was in high school and which I don’t want to have done in my future Moroccan village anyway). So I get that done over spring break (definitely was not the kind of spring break you see on TV). I send my forms in with a note from my oral surgeon that the teeth are gone. They send back the forms, and I need to get a note from my normal dentist that it’s been done. I send that in and they send me a letter back. Apparently there’s a new problem: I have two baby teeth. That’s not a new problem, that’s not even new, they’ve been there since I was first teething. Apparently the X-ray shows some dark spots around the roots. Now, that could just be “reabsrption” (from what I understand, it means that the grown-up teeth next to the babies cleared away the roots in the areas where they popped up) or it could have been something horrible. So I go back to the dentist, and he’s just pissed at Peace Corps, and writes them a note saying my teeth are fine. He’s so annoyed with the ridiculosity of Peace Corps that he does this for free. Awesome for me, because my dental insurance ran out a day or two before.

No Idea what he wrote in that note, but Peace Corps dental finally accepted my teeth as okay.

Other things I’ve had to do for Peace Corps since: Send in my passport (I’ll be getting a special Peace Corps passport during “Staging”). This had me nervous. Not because I don’t trust Peace Corps, but because they took too long. Me living in Silver Spring, and Peace Corps national headquarters being in DC, I usually just take the metro (train) in, walk to their office, and hand over my documents to the mail-room guys. I figure why risk it getting lost in the mail, right? So I handed in my final (strongly worded?) dental note in one envelope and my passport (along with the special forms needed for my Peace Corps passport) in another. Dental cleared me within a few days, the passport guys...not so much. I got an email from them saying I haven’t sent in my passport yet (and it had to be done soon). But I handed it in along with my dental forms, and those got cleared already, and both dental and passport offices are located in the Peace Corps national headquarters.

That can’t be good. I kind of need my Passport. While there is a way to get a Peace Corps passport without having a valid normal one, it requires a bunch of forms. The forms were at home and I had just gone to New Hampshire to start camp counseloring for the next two months. Not enough time after camp to get those forms in (I got back from camp about 2 weeks before “Staging”). I’m screwed. Again. What is it with Peace Corps and needing so many forms from me? Luckily, a week or two later, they found my passport.

Afterwards, I had to fill out a few questionnaires about my in-country home stay preferences and language-learning style. Filled those out online. Hopefully Peace Corps has got all the forms they need from me, `cause “Staging” is only five days away.

Sunday, August 30, 2009

Prologue Part III: The Long Wait

So that leads us to the five-ish months between my interview and when I finally got accepted. Yeah, it took that long.

I got home from the interview and had to correct my application essay. Apparently if there are 3 or more mistakes, they won’t accept you as an applicant for an English teacher. I had that many mistakes, but my recruiter told me to correct and send them to him (though he didn’t say what was wrong, so it’s not like he was completely bending the rules for me). I guess my interview went better than I thought (see previous blog post for why I’m still shocked).

Sent in my corrections and I guess they were good enough, because about two weeks later, my recruiter called and asked me if I’d be willing to go to certain countries

[editor’s note: I just noticed one of the essays said I spent summer 2008 in Uganda…that should be summer 2007…oops].

Now, Peace Corps can only tell you what region (Sub-Saharan Africa, South America, etc.) they’re sending you, but he did give me hints like “a French speaking country in Africa” so I had a little more of an idea than just “Africa” or something. I turned him down on every country for two or three weeks. After that was, like, two weeks of silence. I had no idea what was going on. Finally, he called me in the middle of class. After class I listened to the message asking me if I still wanted to go to a country in the Middle East (my top choice of region), apparently there were like only seven spots open. The way my recruiter explained it to me earlier, he gets weekly updates of what countries want what types of volunteers and how many they’re willing to take in at that time. Crazy excited, I called him back after, got the machine, left a message. He called me back in the middle of my next class. I ditched class for a few minutes to take that call, hoping no one would notice the phone vibrating in my pocket as I left the Psyc building. And like that, I was nominated for the Middle East/North Africa region. What that means is that the recruiter for the Middle East/North Africa region now had to approve of my application and okay my nomination.

As I said earlier, this took place over the course of weeks. I had been preparing for Peace Corps since my sophomore year of college (volunteering in Africa, taking Peace Corps-related classes, learning to play an instrument), there’s no way I would just lay around all passive and such during the final stretch. So what was I doing?

1) I was taking an Arabic class (trying to get nominated to the Middle East, after all) as well as a class called "Teaching English to Non-English Natives"

2) I went to Slat Al Juma’a (Friday prayers) every week with the Muslim Student Association

3) I set up a little Quran study group with a Muslim friend

4) I found a group on campus that tutors English to other (mostly foreign-born and at UMD for grad-school) students and volunteered.

5) I got a job at the university gym for one semester (where I also got CPR certified)

7) I volunteered at the university health center

8) I emailed my recruiter updates on how all this was going. Visibility is key, right?

Now, I had first heard about Peace Corps and what they do my sophomore year in a presentation when my recruiter spoke at the University of Maryland. I went to one or two more before I applied at the end of my Junior year. Now, as a Senior, I went to every single one (there’s a presentation at Maryland about once or twice a month). One time, I walked in a little late, and my recruiter chuckled and just game me this smile, then went back to his presentation. Towards the end it got to the point where when talking about the application process, my recruiter would turn to me and ask if there was anything he missed or what it was like for me to apply…and then I’d be put on the spot and try to look all knowledgeable in front of a group of strangers. Once or twice a potential applicant would ask for my email or if we could meet up to help him/her with the application process.

Meanwhile, I had to get all my medical/dental stuff done. Apparently my “primary physician,” as specified by my health insurance card, had retired. I had to find a new one, alert my healthcare people of the switch, and get some tests done. I also had to get my teeth examined (more on that later). I sent in all my medical/dental forms, kept going to presentations, volunteering with the English-tutoring thing, Friday prayers, Arabic, all my other classes, finding time to hang with friends and other people, etc.

Finally, I get a call from the Middle East/North Africa region. We’re talking months had passed here. I'd even applied for a few other jobs just in case I didn't get into Peace Corps. Still, I’d updated her with all my Peace Corps related goings-on once my normal recruiter told me that he nominated me to that region (reason being that he no longer had my file, she did now). She asked me if I was doing the English-tutoring thing. I told her I was, and started going into detail about it…caught my breath for a sec…and she told me I'd been nominated to the Middle East/North Africa region. A smile happened as I started to comprehend what she had just told me. It took a day or two for my Peace Corps handbooks/acceptance forms and such to come in the mail and tell me I was going to Morocco. The next day I called her back to confirm that I want in.

You'd think that's it. But wait, there's more...TO BE CONTINUED

Friday, August 28, 2009

Prologue Part II: My Peace Corps Interview

Here’s the story of my Peace Corps interview as best I can remember it (remember, that was nearly one full year ago)...

So it’s the day of my interview, and I had everything prepared the night beforehand. I’ve got a copy of my birth certificate/whatever else Peace Corps wanted, my clothes are all laid out, and my mom’s letting me borrow her car.

I wake up in the morning, shower, and get dressed. I’m wearing khakis, a t-shirt, and a button-down shirt over that. The t-shirt is from America Counts, an organization I volunteered at, helping tutor math after school to kids who could use the some help (be it that their parents work multiple jobs/have no time, they don’t speak too much English, or any other reason). It’s a really great organization, but I digress. Over that I’m wearing a very bright, green button-down shirt (the shirt is unbuttoned so you can clearly see the America Counts t-shirt underneath. This shirt was a present from my host family while I was volunteering in Uganda. I figured that if my interviewer commented on my choice of clothes, it would lead to a nice side-conversation about why I’m awesome/Peace Corps material.

I gather my documents that prove I exist, print out some mapquest directions, bring my ukulele along, and walk towards my mom’s car. Only problem is, the car’s missing. Frantic, I call my mom’s cell phone. I get the machine. I keep calling, then my brother Joey tells me Mom never answers her cell, try calling her blackberry. So I do, and of course she picks up on the first try. My mom went grocery shopping, she thought my interview was an hour later than it was. Great.

So she brings the car back, I rush outside and usurp it. For some reason the GPS isn’t working right. Not all the letters respond on the touch-screen, so I can’t actually enter the address of my regional Peace Corps office. Fine, whatever, that’s why I printed out the mapquest directions anyway. As I’m about to pull out, my dad’s car drives up the driveway. Within about 30 seconds, we switch GPSs, and I’m on my way.

As I’m driving, my recruiter calls my cell. I answer, he’s just confirming that I’m coming. I reply that I am, but that I may be a few minutes late (the estimated time I tell him is the time the GPS says I’ll arrive). Traffic’s horrible, I call him again and tell him I’ll be a little later than expected (trying to look responsible, here). I’m nervous, I’m late, I planned to leave early but my morning was crazy. Whatever, I find a parking space a few blocks from the Peace Corps office, put some money in the meter, and run.

As I’m standing there in the waiting room, my Peace Corps recruiter comes and walks me to his office where he’ll interview me. We pass by some woman, he stops, and introduces me as the guy whose application essay she liked. Sweet. We get to his office, and the interview’s going really well. I apologized for being late, he told me it’s no big deal. He did mention my clothes, though. Apparently a lot of people fail to take the Peace Corps interview seriously and come dressed in whatever (a suit is preferred). I explain my reasoning, he kind of smiles and tells me that’s fine. I’m relieved. We go over some facts on my application, you know, just to confirm that my address is right, what my name is, and that my social security number is...oh G-d. So, being a college student, I got really used to putting my Student ID on all my tests/papers/whatever. I may have kind of written my student ID in the "social security" box on my application. "No problem," my recruiter says with a smile, "that's why we do this." About an hour or longer into the interview we stop everything because I have to put some more money in the meter (this is so not my day). I come back, the interview’s going really well, and all I can think about is everything that’s gone wrong. Well, it turns out there’s some more. I forgot to get myself fingerprinted (Peace Corps sent me a card with spaces for all my fingerprints and I was supposed to get that done before the interview). No biggie, my recruiter walks me to a back room and we get it done there. As I’m being fingerprinted, he starts to talk to me about possible places I could serve in as a Peace Corps volunteer. Am I in? He hasn’t officially told me yet. But he’s already talking about countries I could go to. Weird.

As my recruiter’s a former Peace Corps volunteer in Thailand, he says goodbye to my in Thai. I return the favor by saying “welaba” and telling him that it’s goodbye in Luganda (the language my host family spoke in Uganda). Feeling pretty good on the drive back when I get a call. It’s my recruiter, I left my passport and other important documents in his office. Crap. He did keep a photocopy of them, though, and offered to mail the originals back if I was already too far. I drive back, pick up my stuff, and give him an awkward smile as I say goodbye to him in English.

Smooth

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Prologue part I: The Application

Hey, so I haven't actually gone to Morocco yet (still got about 2 weeks to go). Seeing as how I can't very well write about what's happened to me in Morocco yet, I'd like to start this blog with what happened before the start of my Peace Corps service.

Some people have asked me why I joined the Peace Corps in the first place. Others want to know why Morocco. Still, others have actually asked me for some advice about how to get in. I’m hopefully going to answer those and a few other questions in my first few blog posts. So let’s start somewhere close to the beginning.

When filling out my Peace Corps application, I had to answer two essay questions. Here’s what I wrote/submitted:


Essay #1

Cross-cultural Experience
Peace Corps Volunteers must be open to ideas and cultures different from their own and may need to modify their appearance or behavior appropriately. Give an example (between 250-500 words) of a significant experience that illustrates your ability to adapt in an unfamiliar environment. Please highlight the skills you used and the perspectives you gained. You may draw from experiences in your work, school, or community in the U.S. or abroad. Please list the date(s) of your experience.



Honestly, I think that since coming to college, my life qualifies as a cross-cultural experience. I was a nice Jewish boy with a Jewish day-school background, and so were almost of my friends. I lived a pretty sheltered life. Now I have Jewish, Muslim, Christian, Hindu, Buddhist, and atheist friends. I’ve sat down to lunch with the homeless and listened to their lives’ stories. I’ve prayed alongside the University of Maryland’s Muslim community, and learned some fundamentals of Islam from them. After a year of studying Bible with a Korean missionary, I went with her family to their church. I’ve helped edit a Nigerian man’s book, I’m involved with several charity organizations; and am very proud of being a founder of one involving sending Ugandan refugees to vocational school. Together with the rest of America Counts, I’ve tutored math to minority children here in the U.S. My life has become a cross-cultural experience.
Still, if I had to choose one cross-cultural experience, it would have to be my time in Africa. I spent the best part of summer 2008 in a small Jewish village in Uganda. Uganda is home to roughly 800 natives whose great-grandparents, without ever having met a Jew, decided to join the tribe. It was Africa, it was a community in which my parents would grudgingly let me volunteer, I had to go.
I met with the headmaster of the primary school my first night there. During our conversation, he casually mentioned “So, you will be teaching Hebrew.” Shocked to learn I would not be teaching my native English, my next words were something along the lines of “Okay…can I start tomorrow?”
Hebrew had been taught by the headmaster, who taught himself to read and write the language. My first day, he walked me to our first class, and then just left me. He left me with 5 grades to teach. I volunteered myself to the high school later, totaling seven classes. I had never really taught, and did not know the level of proficiency of any of the classes. Their resources were fundamentally lacking, there were certainly not enough “Hebrew Primers” to go around.
So I improvised. I tested the classes on the Hebrew letters, vowels, and words, discovering where each class was. From there, I created my own lesson plans. I found a beach ball, and used it to teach words such as “you,” “me,” “they,” “have,” “the,” “ball” “under,” “on,” “table,” “outside,” “tree,” etc. One week in, the students were starting to build simple sentences. But my time was limited. So every day after class, I had each student write one word he or she wished to learn. I incorporated these words into my lessons. I requested a notebook from the headmaster, and in it wrote lesson plans and the students’ requested vocabulary words, so that he could continue to teach not just reading and writing, but comprehension of a relevant vocabulary once I left.




Essay #2

Motivation Statement
Peace Corps service presents major physical, emotional, and intellectual challenges. You have provided information on how you qualify for Peace Corps service elsewhere in the application. In the space below, please provide a statement (between 250-500 words) that includes:

1) Your reasons for wanting to serve as a Peace Corps Volunteer; and
2) How these reasons are related to your past experiences and life goals.


It seems stupid now, the silly fantasy of a naive little boy. I always wanted to be a superhero, always wanted to save the world. I saw Peace Corps as my chance, work in a developing country for two years, do my part, and that would be it. So, like Batman before me, I started to train. I’ve tried to learn everything about everything. I took courses in creative writing, drawing, nutrition, kinesiology, African history, Latino history, world music, music theory, and teaching. I joined America Counts last year and was a math tutor for minority students, I joined the campus Wushu club and learned martial arts, I volunteered in Africa, and took up a musical instrument. That was the plan, spend college preparing for my time in the Peace Corps, for my big adventure as a hero, as part of a larger group of heroes, and spend two years saving the world. But the plan, it lacked a fundamental understanding of what makes a hero.
It’s cliché, you know? To be a hero, Spider-Man had to lose his Uncle Ben, Batman had to lose both his parents, Superman lost his entire planet. I never understood, not until I lost Albert. He was one of my best friends, he couldn’t afford college, he wanted to be a doctor, so he joined the army and became a medic. All he wanted to do was laugh, to live life, he was never a kind stranger but a lifelong friend to everyone he met. He was a medic, all he did in Iraq was save lives. And they took his life, we lost Albert when his vehicle was hit by an “improvised explosive device.”
I get it now, it’s not some fun adventure, it’s not a game, the stakes are real. If you’re going to save the world, if you’re truly going to make it a better place, you need to keep working at it. Saving the world doesn’t end after a two-year stint as a volunteer. I get it. I finally understand why Superman calls it the “Never ending battle.” But I’m going to argue that. For all his battles, Superman’s only made more enemies, hell-bent on killing him, threatening his city to do so. To battle, to fight, only creates more fighting, more intense fighting. It creates wars, and it kills people like Albert Bitton.
It’s a struggle, a never ending struggle. We all need to talk, to argue, to conquer our differences with dialogue, not weapons. And I will spend the rest of my life struggling, struggling until the fighting ends. I’ve always wanted to be a superhero, so it’s time I stop training and start doing. So let my struggle begin, the never ending struggle, it starts, not ends, with Peace Corps.